Parenting with kindness: March 28

This week we heard an inspiring message from Kelly Bradford about parenting with kindness. Kelly is a mother of two, a foster parent, and a former public school teacher. Here are some of the highlights of Kelly's message. 

• There are 3 components to parenting: Correction, training and praise. We often put them in that order, but praise should be the main component we use. 
• When our kids are sad or upset, it's important to remember they are people and their experiences are important.
• We have to connect with our children emotionally. We need to listen to them and allow them to be heard.
• Treat your kids the way you would want to be treated. Be kind. Encourage them. Remind them you love them.
• Preschool children need 2 hours a day outside playing.
• It takes a child 2,000 times to learn a new social skill.
• Create opportunities to train your children.
• Help your children understand what type of "sharing" you expect from them. Be specific and set the right expectation.
• Teach your child to come for good things and praise. Rewards and repetition are important. Saying "come" is only effective it it's seen as a good thing.
• Teach them the scripts you want them to know. If you get stuck in anger, ask for help.

ANNOUNCEMENTS

At our April 11 meeting, we will be cutting fabric for LuoPads, which provide women in developing countries access to feminine hygiene products. Please bring sharp scissors, if you have them. You can also donate any flannel fabric to be used for making the pads. Be sure to check out the website and watch the below video to see how LuoPads are making a difference!

SPONSOR

Katie Weeks with Barefoot Books was our sponsor this week.  Children need diverse, inclusive and inspiring books: This is what Barefoot Books is all about. From the very beginning, their books have opened windows to other cultures and perspectives, while also providing children of all backgrounds and abilities with a much-needed mirror of their own experiences. Check out their website to see all of what they offer!